Women have an important role to play

Lee Yen and I are in our 28th year of marriage. I have a dear friend Dr John Edmund Haggai whose marriage lasted 74 years before the Lord took Christine, his wife, home to Jesus. All great women after God's own heart and exemplify the kind of woman mentioned in the book of Proverbs.

Proverbs 31:10-11

Who can find a virtuous wife?

For her worth is far above rubies.

The heart of her husband safely trusts her;

So he will have no lack of gain.

The final chapter of proverbs has two clear set of messages. One for the son, the ruler, and the other for a woman. Great pieces of advice that I have read many times over before. My wife and daughter have also studied the message for women quite a lot as well under different study materials.

Be always of sound mind, able to think straight and fair. Drunkenness will not help in this area. Our older 3 children are either done with college or finishing. Much partying goes on in their college residential areas to the point of not just silliness, but foolishness. A common occurrence with one of the universities is couch fires. Why they do it baffles me. Maybe it is a form of worship to the gods?! But it shows how reckless you can be when under the influence of alcohol. We need straight thinking leaders.

31:10 should be the favorite number of any lady. As you read the whole rest of the chapter it is totally dedicated to women who God has built to multi-task incredibly well, make money and do all this with strength of the Lord. Proverbs 31:30 says, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." I have a wonderful lady, mother and wife that pursues this wisdom well. She models this to her daughter as well. Praise the Lord for their lives of dedication to the Lord. Far above rubies are they!

Father, today I pray you speak into the lives of many women for the sake of redeeming and transforming the world.

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