Over the years I have learnt through success and failure what I should and should not say. My problem is that I am a loud thinker. This means nothing is hidden. Everything that I am thinking, I say it. It can get you into trouble. And it has for me. But at least people do not need to second guess me. They always know what I am thinking. But there is another type of talk that is destructive. Psalms 64:8 So He will make them stumble over their own tongue; All who see them shall flee away. Talking behind people's back with great ill intention. Many schemes get developed (intentionally or unintentionally) and may bring down a person or an entire organization. It can bring great disrepute to someone when there is nothing. It could spilt an organization and build irreparable damage. But God has a promise for us. He will make them stumble over their own tongue. Father, keep me from speaking ill of anybody behind their backs. I want to build not destroy.