When you speak do people sit up and listen? Do you add value to the conversation? Is your word kept as the final word for the matter? I always believe that to inch your way to this point requires that you be a good listener first. As a husband I get lots of training in this area. Many times I fail and I course correct. :) Job was a person that people honored and respected before he lost everything, including his health. Job 29:22 After my words they did not speak again, And my speech settled on them as dew. Our challenge is most times we want to end the matter or issue quickly. But without everyone understanding the matter well and processing for learning in their own way, any statement made by anyone will not help. In the past, younger people used to show deep respect and honor for older or senior people. And so when the older person spoke, they listened and accepted it. Today, they need to go through the personal learning process to accept it. Unless, you have built honor and re...